Growth is a fight. No matter what is your aim, is it financial stability, love, getting rid of your acquired habits. You need to change something in yourself, to change your life, and it can be difficult. If you have desires, but nothing goes the right way, maybe you are in a prolonged period of stagnation?
Life is miraculous because it has both good and bad sides. It is like a coin with white and black sides which is constantly swirling and if you don’t accept these both sides you never understand life.