How to Improve Self-Esteem?

“Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.”

― Marilyn Monroe

Self-esteem plays a significant role in your life. It is the way you feel in the society and it is how you define own importance and uniqueness. It is how you evaluate yourself and as such it is the way you think, behave and fulfil your goals.

Self-esteem is important in all spheres of your life: family, work, friends etc. A proper level of self-esteem allows you to represent all your talents and realize all your dreams. If you want to increase self-esteem, follow these pieces of advice:

  1. Define the problem. If you feel like you have low self-esteem, it is probably that you have a reason for it. Take time to think about what made you feel like that. Who or what is a problem.
  2. Accept and solve. If you found out the reason, try to solve it. Some problems cannot be solved spontaneously, so define the period and actions you can apply to solve it. For example, if you are not satisfied with your body weight, change a diet and choose a kind of sport to lose weight. Some people want to solve a problem but they do not want to change their lives and go out of their comfort zone. But only having strong will you can change whatever you want. This is only is the power of your desire.
  3. Define your strong sides. Being concentrated on your weak sides leads you to wrong perception of yourself. Your problem is not a unique description of you. Try to refocus your attention to positive sides of life and write a list of your advantageous. Maybe you have some hobbies, talents, achievement…be grateful for what you have already achieved!

Remember! You are special because you are not like others. We all are different and if you are not so good like others in something, be sure that they can be worst in other areas. Only time defines who we are, some people dedicate time for writing, others like a painting. Choose something that you would like to be proficient in and enjoy yourself.

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