“Turn your wounds into wisdom”
Life is not easy, it has both positive and negative sides. These two sides are essential for us to understand the wisdom of life. Nothing is unimportant, all the situations that happened in your life are necessary for you to grow and improve your life in the future. If you consider how to overcome obstacles, you are on the right way. It means that you are ready to see life in all its colours.
If you want to overcome obstacles you should follow these simple pieces of advice:
Accept. You should accept the obstacle. It happened and there is a sense in it. If you even don’t understand this sense, you need to wait. Even if you think it is unfairly, you should believe that it can bring something new and better. All black streaks are ended with the white ones.
Analyze. Take time to analyze why did it happen to you. Draw a line between nearest events in your life and try to find the common ground between them.
Don’t blame others. Instead of looking for guilty people, think about what is wrong in your actions, thoughts and feelings. Only YOU are responsible for your feelings.
Find Solutions. Even if you don’t understand fully the situation, try to tell yourself what you will change if something similar happen in the future.
Generally, all the obstacles are lessons and it is essential to understand them to prevent them in future. Even if something bad happens, you should always understand that only you are responsible for what you feel now. You can calm down and take actions!